Birth story: Mason was our second planned home birth. Most things about this birth were completely different from the others. On Wednesday the 26th in the am I started losing my bloody mucus plug. Lost it throughout the day but no real contractions. I spent the day schooling the big kids and cleaning the house in an effort to keep moving. I had texted the midwife in the AM that I was losing my plug as she had asked me to let her know.
I finally laid down to nap as I was tired and nothing was happening and I was a bit excited to get it over with during the day as delivering at night is exhausting. I had a few real contractions while laying down but they were random and scattered. In the evening when Tony got home around 5 contractions were still all over but a few were close and painful. The midwife came by checked my blood pressure and baby's heartbeat and then I had her leave as I wanted to lay down and sleep. However I knew once I nursed Abbie before she went to bed it would force contractions, but I needed to lay down.
Midwife left at about 7:30. We got the kids ready for bed and I laid and nursed Abbie. It did start contractions and they were painful, but I just attempted to sleep through it for an hour. At 8:50 I got up to use the bathroom. When I returned to the bedroom I just stood next to the bed leaning over it with my legs apart to encourage baby to drop down and encourage contractions. However what that caused was my water to break. My water has never broken in it's own other than with Abbie when it broke during pushing. I said to Tony " I either peed myself or my water broke and off I took to thebathroom where I was able to quickly confirm that it was my water so I had Tony text the midwife that.
I then hopped in the shower while Tony nicely cleaned up the floor next to the bed where I was standing and then the bathroom floor. I then stayed in the shower for the next almost 3 hours. However I didn't move at all until the midwife arrived and checked baby's heartbeat as I was afraid of it compressing (presenting first). For the next 2 hours I prayed a steady prayer of "Please don't let this hurt me, please make it fast and easy, please keep baby safe." While I never stopped quietly speaking those words while in the shower I did eventually end up sitting and eventually on the floor. I was checking my own cervix and placement of baby. At one point I said to the midwife that the baby was so high because I could hardly feel it so I had her check. She said I was at a 6 but that to her baby wasn't far away and it was my position that made it feel like baby was high to me.
I must add as well that at this point I named the baby even though I didn't know he was a boy. During my praying I said that I would name him Joshua. Not sure why that exactly came to mind but it did.
I was finally talked out of the shower around midnight. Attempted to sit on the toilet or lean over the counter, but that didn't last long as I wanted the water back. Thankfully Tony had turned up the water heater and I was able to get a good half tub of water. From there things went quick but it was all so painful. Every contraction killed. No amount of water or counter pressure could ease any pain. I was still very scared to push as it wasn't going to relieve any pain. I tried hard to hold out but I finally gave in. I pushed through one whole contraction and then on the next one I pushed and pushed until his head was out. I had talked to the midwife before about pulling baby out instead of waiting for next contraction as I remember how horrible it was with Abbie. So at that point I said get it out and the midwife basically leapt in the tub to get behind me to get it out.
She then handed him to me and I pulled him up. After a few breathes I said what is it and since I was holding baby I knew I could look and I did. I said "it's a boy," I did then double check to make sure those were balls and not swollen girl parts. Lol.
Mason laid on my chest in the tub and whimpered. I just talked to him about how neither of us were comfortable and that it would get better. I was eager to get up and out so after about 14 minutes his
cord stopped pulsing and I had delivered the placenta so Tony held the baby and the midwife held the cord and I cut the cord.
Tony then held the baby while I rinsed off and came to get in the bed. I then nursed my little man. I told Tony I wanted to name him Joshua and he said Mason first and so I said ok. We had talked about Mason before as our boy name so then he was instantly Mason Joshua. I nursed him for a bit and then the midwife checked him and Tony dressed him. He weighed 8lbs 5oz with a 14 inch plus head and a very big chest too. He was 21 1/2 inches long. He checked out amazingly. Shortly after 3 AM the midwife packed up to leave. She had cleaned up the bathroom and Tony had brought me some toast since I was interested in much else.
He whimpered a bit for a while but was breathing fine and his chest and lungs were clear. I finally decided he was just expressing my feelings of pain. I slept for about 2 30 minute periods as I just stared at him. His face was quite bruised from his rapid decent down the birth canal.
Just like every day a little before 7 am in came Zander and Abbie. Abbie popped up over the bed to see Mason nursing and was less than impressed. Zander as well didn't want to see baby so he laid down to cuddle with daddy. Zayden rushed right in excitedly and Zavier shied away. Zachary had been up until about midnight because he was still awake when I announced my water broke so he was tired but came in shortly. All 3 big boys took a turn holding him.
We finally agreed on Robert for his second middle name yesterday so that we could go ahead and get his birth certificate filed.
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